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Relationship Advice?

CL is topic-less, so at least I don't have to worry about being off of one. Anyways, I hope some of you are willing to listen to my whiny-bitch-ass personal high school issue and give me some advice.

I've been dating my girlfriend for about three months now. She's beautiful, smart, and funny; she has all the things one would want. But things have only been so-so lately, starting about a month ago. Firstly, we haven't been seeing each other outside of when we have to (orchestra rehearsal). That means I haven't seen her outside of ~10-15 minutes, once a week, for about a month. I should point out that I'm a senior and she's a junior, so she's having a much busier year than I am.

Second, and more worryingly, we haven't been talking as much in general. We haven't had a real conversation (however you define that) in several weeks. I asked her about it, and she said that it's because she's extremely introverted, and is often unwilling to talk to anybody at all, including me. Hmm. The plot thickens. Since she said that, I've been afraid to talk to her, lest she not be in a talking mood and gets mad at me.


I just don't know if we want the same thing. I want companionship, but I honestly don't know what the hell she wants. I feel like this whole thing is going downhill. I haven't changed, and she says she hasn't changed (but that clearly isn't the case). I'm not sure what to do here.

That's all. I think. If you require more information to provide your advice, ask away.

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